Since every boby was born with crying, he/she was destined to compete in society and family. At the beginning, parents are proud of their own baby who is more beautiful, white, fat and cute than other babies. With baby grows up, parents care of children's intelligence higher than others. Next, to compare grade whose is higher in school, to compare who is matriculated by famous university. As following, to compare who is employed by famous company, to compare how much money earned by own children, even, to compare whose bf or gf is better than others. That is really ridiculous. It is no doubt said that parents wish their own children cause easily dark feeling for their own future. Everyone has own ideal, aim and life. Meanwhile, i also believe ideal will be affected by others or affect  others. For the same way which maybe suit for someone, but it isn't suit for self. In my opinion, to compete with others is just for result, to compete with self is for own ideal.